Trata de verlo de mi modo", dice una hermosa canción de Lennon & Mc Carteney, "Podemos solucinarlo".
We Can Work It Out (Lennon/McCartney)
Try to see it my way,Do I have to keep on talking till I can't go on?While you see it your way,Run the risk of knowing that our love may soon be gone.We can work it out. We can work it out.Think of what you're saying.You can get it wrong and still you think that it's alright.Think of what I'm saying,We can work it out and get it straight, or say good night.We can work it out. We can work it out.Life is very short, and there's no timeFor fussing and fighting, my friend.I have always thought that it's a crimeSo I will ask you once again.Try to see it my wayOnly time will tell if I am right or I am wrong.While you see it your wayThere's a chance that we may fall apart before too long.We can work it out. We can work it out.Life is very short, and there's no timeFor fussing and fighting, my friend.I have always thought that it's a crimeSo I will ask you once again.Try to see it my wayOnly time will tell if I am right or I am wrong.While you see it your wayThere's a chance that we may fall apart before too long.We can work it out. We can work it out.
Try to see it my way,Do I have to keep on talking till I can't go on?While you see it your way,Run the risk of knowing that our love may soon be gone.We can work it out. We can work it out.Think of what you're saying.You can get it wrong and still you think that it's alright.Think of what I'm saying,We can work it out and get it straight, or say good night.We can work it out. We can work it out.Life is very short, and there's no timeFor fussing and fighting, my friend.I have always thought that it's a crimeSo I will ask you once again.Try to see it my wayOnly time will tell if I am right or I am wrong.While you see it your wayThere's a chance that we may fall apart before too long.We can work it out. We can work it out.Life is very short, and there's no timeFor fussing and fighting, my friend.I have always thought that it's a crimeSo I will ask you once again.Try to see it my wayOnly time will tell if I am right or I am wrong.While you see it your wayThere's a chance that we may fall apart before too long.We can work it out. We can work it out.
è ¿Por qué pasamos tanto tiempo esperando que sea el otro el que tenga que "ceder"? Acaso porque tendemos a ver la discusión como una compentencia en la que sólo uno puede "ganar". ¿Contra quien competimos? Quizá el adversario no sea más que nuestro propio temor al cambio... descubrir que estábamos equivocados total o parcialmente y que deberíamos adaptarnos a una nueva situación. Intentar verlo de otro modo, ponerse en los ojos del otro... es poder entender mejor la realidad. Acordar más adecuadamente las observaciones intersubjetivas, ajustar la lente. Discutir es construir. Escuchar serenamente el argumento del otro es una actitud inteligente. Porque el conflicto (entre lo que yo sostego y el otro cuestiona) es el motor del conocimiento dicen los constructivistas y creo que es una buena definición. Por eso, evadir las discusiones es perderse lo más rico de la comunicación. Y es algo que solo depende de nosotros.
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No es fácil a veces ni escuchar ni ponerse en el sitio del otro. Aún así deberíamos intentarlo.
Perdón por no asomarme más a menudo, pero no te agregué en la lista de blogs que visito. Ahí te pondré. Bonito el cambio que le has dado a tu blog ;)
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